The Oracle's Counsel

Question: What should I wear to the wedding?

Answer:

The night of The Moonlit Oath is a blend of fairytale and fantasy, guided by the light of the full moon. Guests are encouraged to dress in formal or semi-formal attire in colors that harmonize with the evening sky — deep blues, silvers, soft greys, ad accents of rose gold. Flowing gowns, sharp suits, and touches of sparkle are all welcome, though comfort should guide your choice. Think enchanted forest under starlight elegant, magical, and celebratory.

Question: Will dinner be provided? Are there vegetarian/vegan/gluten-free options?

Answer:

Yes — a full feast will be shared after the vow, with dishes chosen to honor both tradition and taste. If you have any dietary concerns, simply let us know in advance, and we will do our best to make sure the table is set with something you can enjoy. Our goal is that every traveler leaves the fest well-fed, happy, and ready to dance beneath the stars.

Question: Are children welcome at the ceremony and reception?

Answer: 

Yes! Children are cherished guests on this journey, and they are welcome to take part in both the ceremony and the celebration that follows. Some will even hold honored roles within the Circle of Honor itself. We kindly ask parents and guardians to keep a watchful eye so that every traveler, young and old, may enjoy the night in comfort and joy.

Question: Where are you registered? Do you prefer physical gifts or contributions?

Answer:

Your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for. For those who wish to offer a token of blessing, we have created a registry with items that will help us begin our married life together. Contributions toward our future home and adventures are also deeply appreciated. Links and details can be found on the Gifts of the Oath page of this site.

Question: Can guests take pictures during the ceremony?

Answer:

During the ceremony itself, we kindly ask that guests set aside phones and cameras so that the moment may be witnessed with full hearts and open eyes. Our Keeper of Memories will be capturing every vow, smile, and tear for us to share later. Once the celebration begins, guests are welcome to take photos and videos — and we invite you to share them with us using the QR Code that will be provided before entering the reception area.

Question: Where is the venue, and how do I get there?

Answer:

The Moonlit Oath will be held in Massachusetts (please keep checking back for the exact location). Exact directions, maps, and travel tips can be found on the Paths to the Realm page of this site. Whether you journey by road, rail, or sky, we've gathered the guidance you'll need to arrive safely and on time. Parking details will also be provided there so that your arrival may be smooth and stress-free.

Question: Where should I stay if I'm traveling from afar?

Answer:

We've gathered a list of nearby inns, hotels, and lodgings on the Havens for the Journey page of this site. Whether you seek the ease of a modern inn, the comfort of a cozy rental, or the luxury of a grand sanctuary, you'll find options to match your needs. We recommend booking early to ensure your haven is secured for the night of the Oath.

Question: What time should i arrive, and how long does the celebration last?

Answer:

Guests are encouraged to arrive at least 30 minutes before the ceremony begins so there is time to find seats and settle in before the procession. The ceremony will flow into an evening of feasting, dancing, and merriment, lasting until late in the night. A detailed schedule of the day's deeds can be found on the Day of Deeds page.

Question: Who should I contact if I have more questions?

Answer:

If you wonder is not answered here, we welcome you to reach out. You may send us a note through the Send a Raven page of this site,, and we will gladly provide guidance. No question is too small — every traveler deserves clarity as tehy prepare to join us beneath the full moon.